Individual Development

Purpose: Personal Growth and Development

Personal development involves investigating your shadows to understand the origins of your beliefs, patterns and identity, exploring and defining your values and establishing a sense of purpose in the world. It also involves developing the ability to create meaningful relationships and dialogues, to foster mutual respect, understanding and empathy both within yourself and with others. My aim is to help you recognize and reframe the challenges that lead to distress, provide guidance through moments of fragility and doubt, and offer emotional and psychological support as you transition towards a renewed version of yourself. Using techniques such as constellations, systemic exercises, or individual coaching, we will explore topics relevant to both personal and professional growth, expanding your awareness and cultivating empathy.

Focus Areas

Investigating the origins of your beliefs and identity
Recognizing inherited patterns and behaviours
Identifying values and re-orienting based on purpose
Stimulating sustained and transformative change

Ideal for

Individuals and professionals looking for deeper insights particularly during moments of metamorphosis

Professionals feeling stuck or at a crossroads in their career

Leaders wanting deeper personal or professional growth & transformational shifts

Method: Systemic Workshops

As a constellator, I utilise systemic (family and organisational) constellations as the basis for my work. Family constellations is a therapeutic approach developed by Bert Hellinger, a German psychotherapist, in the late 20th century. It is based on the belief that the emotional and psychological problems of individuals can be related to their family history and patterns of relationships. Through the physical orientation and sensory experiences of the group, we can extract deep subconscious intelligence regarding the configuration of our identities, patterns, and traumas, leading to profound insights that can catalyse fundamental shifts, deep healing, and often, sustained and transformative change.

Expertise

I am a seasoned facilitator and constellator and I specialise in orchestrating interventions through deep immersive journeys using systemic constellations to guide you through a deep process of self-discovery and healing. My philosophy and approach is also strongly influenced by a unique blend of (existential) philosophy, (behavioural) psychology, and concepts derived from Zen Buddhism and Tantric spiritual traditions.

“Working with Zulfi I have experienced an enormous power in his questions, they are always looking to reveal what really needs to be brought to the surface. That also includes the discomfort of truth, yet he holds the space in a way that it feels ok to look at the rough edges of life. We connect in our desire to include unconscious aspects of ourselves and relationships in group work and it’s empowering to experience that in order for that to work we have to look into the mirror deeply. And Zulfi has the ability to be a mirror and work with whatever comes up.”

"Zulfi was one of the most precious people I had the pleasure to meet on my healing journey. I participated in several of his Family Constellations where he is the facilitator and every time we went deeper, and I could discover patterns within me and where they came from. Some that I didn’t even know existed, always with Zulfi wise guidance and warm support. He works not only in a skillful and intelligent way but also has this unique combination of expertise aligned with a strong intuition and is not afraid of going beyond to really make sure he helps you in a deep life changing way. I honestly can’t recommend him enough, as to me it was mind blowing to work with him! Much gratitude!"

"I attended 2 days of family constellations. The first time I was only a representative and the second time I also had a constellation myself. I was quite nervous, but Zulfi managed to lower the tension with a warm welcome and the exercises prior to the constellation. It is nice how Zulfi phrases the open questions to help you put the constellation in context. He also encourages thinking about connections outside the current setup, which helped me further to give it a place. Zulfi listens carefully, is thoughtful and knows when to ask more difficult questions. He knows how to offer sufficient individual attention in a group setting, while also creating group cohesion."

"I participated in 3 constellation group events facilitated by Zulfi. My experiences were pretty special. I had never done a constellation before, so I didn’t know what to expect. Zulfi took a decent amount of time to create a very safe group environment and openness for the process. The experiences mirrored some of my own behaviours and gave me helpful insights. I really enjoy being in sort of a meditative state during these days. I can safely recommend Zulfi to other people. He facilitates a safe environment, which not only helps the process but also makes you feel that you’ve made new friends for life with the other participants. His style is very intuitive and likeable, which has been helpful for the constellations I’ve participated in."